Feelings are already confusing enough, and the addition of someone we (still) like treating us sweetly one day and coldly the next is enough to leave our minds spinning with confusion.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of blaming yourself when his or her actions toward you are anything but steady.
Your partner could also enjoy your company and find you interesting, but for some reason not want to commit.
Again, this has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.
Before you know it, the toxic thoughts began to consume you (but none of them are true).
The way your partner is treating you has no correlation to who you are as a person and how great you are as a significant other.
Sure, there are people out there who will tell you they aren’t looking for a relationship and mean it, but others will not.
If you feel like it’s the latter, there’s a reason for that gut feeling, and you should recognize that you deserve more than someone who makes you wait around for them.Read further to see what his or her mixed signals could mean and how none of the reasons have to do with you.Whether your partner’s excuse for his or her sporadic behavior is because of work or because of a trip, the truth is that someone who is truly invested in getting to know you will make time to.This could be the explanation for why he or she seems to show interest only at certain times — because it’s hard to completely focus on one person when you’re seeing more than one.One of the hardest parts of getting to know someone is that we’ve become a part of a dating culture where going on dates with someone is a different level than “exclusively” going on dates with someone.