"The world teaches us that our sexual nature is the most powerful piece of us.
In reality, our sexuality is only a small piece of who we are.
The primary way of doing this is by initiating conversations about physical boundaries and casting a vision for a relationship that honors Christ.Truth is, even in marriage, you have to rein in your sexual desire and allow it to be fulfilled with your spouse in a loving consensual encounter.Part of dating and learning to bring your sexual desire under submission is simply training ground for marriage." Managing sexual desires begins with realizing that we can't do it on our own.When our sexual selves are the focus, we lose who we are as whole people.If we can learn to see ourselves body, soul and spirit, it becomes easier to save your whole self for marriage," she says.