Alpha males are manly men for which womean are highly attracted to.
It's no different when men are constantly ogling beautiful women while ignoring unattractive women.
In fact, today, a substantial proportion of surrogate partners' clients are older virgin men. It began in 1966, when British sexologist Martin John Cole, Ph. introduced "sex surrogates," sexologically trained women, into sex therapy with men--and was attacked for running a brothel.
A few years later, pioneering sex researchers William Masters, M. and Virginia Johnson also employed surrogates and faced similar attacks. Instead, they answer clients' sex questions, and introduce them to kissing, sensual touch, massage, and mutual nudity--but not genital sex--to help them become more comfortable with what happens in intimate relationships.
I'm sure many a "nice guy" who gets the "let's just be friends" from a proverbial ex-cheerleader type would give a "let's just be friends" to a "nice gal".
Using data from the National Survey of Family Growth, the researchers tracked sexual abstinence among 2,469 men and 5,120 women age 25 to 45, and found that 122 of the men (5 percent) and 104 of the women (2 percent) said they'd never had partner sex.
The real world of older virgins is much different from the one depicted in the film.
It's a world of shame and isolation, a world where people feel seriously stuck, handicapped, and not part of the adult world.
Perhaps it is the harem itself, and not Mother Nature, who hands the keys to the Alpha Males.
Put another way, it is women who decide what traits are the necessary traits of an Alpha Male, and that list of traits may change over time (though certain traits remain perenial favorites.